Monday, February 2, 2009

randoms.

today, a new-found friend asked me a qns.

how faithful can one be?


sit back and relaxed and thoughts flood in. here are my ans...


hmmm. it depends. i bring u back to these two words. self control.

in a r/s, a guy still have to carry on his life, like going to sch and meet up with friends, do projects and stuff.. same for a girl.

he/she is always exposed to opportunities to have a double relationship. the guy, can perhaps fall for his classmate, while the girl, vice versa.

and it's all back down to self control where one must know how to draw the line between a friendship, a bgr, and a triangular r/s.

and most of the time, the guy tat will tend to be less faithful.. is due to the fact tat he lusted for another girl. not love.


What an answer. I looked back and reflected. Perhaps sometimes i will need to use my own answers to pull myself together when temptations flow in.


anyway, life's gonna be busy for me really soon.

first aid course - mon to wed.
6d5n m'sia expedition - 25th feb to 3rd march.
ocbc cycling competition - 22nd feb.
training every tues and thurs.

i was just wondering...

edward, are you ready for a brand new r/s with a girl?
do you have time for her?
do you have enough $ for a r/s?
will you bring her happiness?
will this just be a love or a lust story?


or

should you just wait till you complete your studies?
r
emember what you said to samantha?
move on, is this the way?


edward, what about religion?

sigh forget it. no point telling the world i am a christian when i am not even behaving like one. no point putting a mask everytime i am at church.


edward, did church changed you? or was it because of samantha?

perhaps i loved samantha thats why i loved god.

anyway guys, upon reading this post, feel free ya'knw, drop me a comment. thanks.

2 comments:

Jasmine said...

I think Samantha has done a great job for been there for all of us...

I believe that God wants to channel His love through samantha to you.. Sometimes, we were too engrossed to the world that we even forgot about how to love and APPRECIATE...

Thomas(my BF) has been a great person all this while and I really appreciate him for bringing love and lights through God's love. Despite anything, I told myself that since I've accepted His love, i shall stay faithful as long as the other party stays faithful too.

Give yourself a chance to accept once again.. ^-^

Jasmine said...

Vantasha is my blog name. I'm layhwa.. :)

Do drop by to read my blog if you're free..

www.o0jasminewinkie0o.blogspot.com